Secrets that You don’t know about Yourself
Almost all of us have a hazy awareness about our life. There are so many things which we fail to recognize. Some of you might have recently discovered new phases of life, new aspects of your ambitions. But one thing is common in all. We pull ourselves back from the things we’ve always dreamt of as kids. We think things are beyond our reach and we fear of certainly ending up as a failure. Right? But who are we competing with? Are you in a race to win things? In a contest where the first prize goes to the one who gets his/her dream job before time? NO. Not at all. There’s no race. No contest, no competition. We’re just afraid of ourselves, we’re trying to win a race which is not even there. Let this sink in. Read this part again, I promise you will relate.
There are certain things, each one of us want to have. A meaningful career, Happy and healthy relationships, independence, power, financial security, family, status and so on. The list is never ending. But have you ever thought of the ways to get these things? to accomplish your goals? I can bet on this, nobody reading this would have ever sat with a piece of paper and made a list of things you actually want in your life, and started figuring out ways to have it.
There are so many things in your head, you probably don’t even know. There’s a different desire, a distinct desire in relationships, discrete fantasies and independent passion in life. I am going to tell you few things which will make you think about yourself, and you might be able to introspect and know yourselves better. Let’s begin.
The first step is probably the step I’ve mentioned in the previous para. Make a list of things you want to achieve in your life, and also note down things from which you will make your way to achieve your ambitions. After this, take out some to list up the answers of the questions I’m going to ask you.
- What do I expect from this life?
- What am I really scared of ? and why?
- What matters most in my life?
- What makes me angry and what is the reason behind my temper to the situation?
- What is the one thing in my life that I hate the most and what is the most loved thing in my life? Reasons to keep them.
Now, answers to these questions will be different for everyone. All of us are different, our minds our different, our thought-process and also, our emotions. One thing which is similar, is the ability to think, to wend your way to achieve something and tackling the hurdles. I’m pretty sure that you’re clear with your life, noticeably more after answering these questions. I am keeping this article short, coz I don’t want to waste your time and make you read things unnecessarily.
Remember, Your motives are complete mystery to you till you don’t realize them. Working hard and being busy doesn’t always means that you are moving forward. Doing the right job, and moving in the right direction does.
And last but not the least,
Relieve yourself from social judgement
Work Hard and give your energy to the things you really wish and want them to happen.
Know yourself in the right way and feel centered everyday.
It’s your journey. Let it be your way!
“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”
— Walt Disney.